Who am I to call her perfect?
To place that burden upon her shoulders.
To give her the idea that she isn’t just enough, she’s too much.
She is perfect to me, and if she changed,
I wouldn’t call her any less perfect.
But why?
Why do I confine her to that title?
A title everyone dreams of receiving,
not understanding
it becomes a burden.
A title that everyone is skeptical of,
thinking no one
is truly perfect.
But society beats that into us like we are a drum and they are the drummer.
Everyone hates society.
It’s funny;
we all hate the standards, but we follow them, never breaking them down.
I call her perfect,
not because she fits the socially acceptable mold,
but because
she isn’t part of that mold.
She thinks and feels and does things differently and breaks the unspoken rules of society.
She’s perfect because she cares,
she smiles,
she cries,
she hurts,
she loves,
she laughs,
she is.
She is.
She is alive and new and herself,
and to me, that makes her perfect.
But I don’t wish to label her such a difficult and treacherous title to keep;
I wish to help her feel okay.
Never to tear her down,
but build her up.
Help empower her,
because she’s perfect.